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If you ask most women, a good kiss makes our eyes roll back behind our heads and make us melt like an ice cream cone on a hot summer’s day.

Straight up.

The right smooch in the right spot makes us females weak. You just gotta find it. Ninety-six percent of women reported that they like neck kisses, while only about 10% of men do [Source: AskMen]. 

No instruction manual either. No one wakes up knowing how to be a good kisser. Unfortunately, some of us don’t ever perfect how to be a good kisser either. It’s like dancing. You follow the guy’s lead, you follow each other’s rhythm and timing in a continuous fashion and flow. Don’t ever overpower him unless you are initiating. That’s called seduction. Don’t be shy or backtrack. Once you’re in someone’s personal box all bets are off. Make your move. The force field disappears.

Rougher kisses involves more than lip action. There is either slamming or pushing one person on the bed or against a wall add animal attraction (double turn on), scratching your nails down his back, pulling his hair, or pinching. Romantic kisses consist of sucking of the lips, small one second pecks down the back, bottom lip suctioning or taking the air out of your ears tickles, nibbling the ear lobe nerves, teeth biting pressure, ear blowing, and tongue are all signs of a memorable or ugly kiss depending on his (her) techniques.

Double turn on. We LOVE variation. What’s your fave?

On the other hand, the bad ones literally leave a sore spot (pun on words) or they are wet and drippy ones leaving saliva, not taking his or her time by biting too hard, or too much tongue down your throat turns off some of us gals. In this video, these women talk about the good and the bad ones.

Did you know 59% of men and 66% of women have ended a relationship because one of them was a bad kisser. [Source: http://time.com/2800319/how-to-be-a-good-kisser-10-tips-from-scientific-research/].

Nina may suggest things during my #Girlcam Tour that’ll make you say “Has she lost her mind?” Trust my girlie friends (and guys too). Trust. There is always a reason why I make a suggestion and ask you questions that may push you out of your comfort zone. It’s NEVER random.